As an escort of a certain age, I have found myself proudly wearing the label ‘Cougar’. But there seems to be confusion here, namely in the form of: “So, if you’re a cougar, does that mean you only see younger clients?”
Not at all. That’s one of the biggest misconceptions about sex workers who call themselves ‘Cougars’. While we DO enjoy the company of younger men, we are just as happy to spend time with older gentlemen.
Why would we limit ourselves in the pleasurable things in life? It’s all about giving in to your desires, after all. For me, the big difference between a regular sex worker and a ‘Cougar’ is that we are super affectionate and a little more… shall we say, open-minded?
I’m not going to say anything against younger sexworkers – after all, I have been in this industry for over a decade now! – but as time passes, women like to express affection and sex workers are no different.
I personally love nothing more than to kiss and cuddle with my clients during a booking. It helps me feel connected with the client and allows for deeper intimacy during our time together.
As a proud Cougar, I feel sexier than I have in a long time. I can unleash my sexual energy without feeling embarrassed by the fact that I have a few wrinkles, or if my bum isn’t as high as it used to be. I love my body and I love to share my experience and skills with a willing partner.
I’ve actually found that since I’ve come to embrace being a Cougar, that I meet a huge variety of clients, both male and female who feel the same way I do.
Love your body, love yourself. Love being a Cougar! I do. Rrrrrrrrreow!! 😉 xx